For some men, this might come across as being overly "emotional" or "needy" when in fact, it's just the way women are wired. Conversely, men are not wired to be as emotionally expressive as women. This means we "guys" come across as being more reserved or worse "listeners", when in fact it's not the "listening" we are bad at, it's the "sharing".

This being said, there is no excuse for comments like "can't you do anything right?", -That's not being a "guy", that's being a "dick".