Yeah, it's hard work being a sarariman. Always has been. These are some high-achieving mutherfuckers here; Wednesday Martin studied them as a breed apart. But let's not for a minute pretend that chores are equal:
And let's not pretend for a minute that women aren't at a disadvantage:
Fundamentally, it takes a high-earning man to support a high-earning family while a high-earning woman will provide less support to that same family because their earnings are lower. So. It's much more likely that a man will work too many hours and face minimal sympathy than a woman will; after all, women are still expected to leave and make babies and even if they don't, they'll be judged for that instead.