In modern society, where most of the population is concentrated in cities, humans live distanced from nature. In our little cubicles of concrete and forests of asphalt, we segregate ourselves from the plant and the rest of the animal kingdom (with small exceptions for close companions). Fewer and fewer of us know how to produce our own food, clothes or whatever and what it takes to produce it. With our incredibly demanding routines, we don't have time to stop and think about things that we take for granted. We mindlessly walk through supermarket isles throwing into the cart whatever is at a wallet's length, unconsciously trusting its source and method of production.

Becoming a vegan is a dramatic life decision. The conscious decision to live according to compassionate values with the aim of reducing suffering requires a radical consumption and lifestyle change. You find yourself learning about nutrition and reading through countless product labels for the 100% cotton jumper or egg-free falafels. You find yourself defending your plant based packed meal and explaining why dairy is actually detrimental to the absorption of calcium. You find yourself caring. You find yourself justifying where you get your Protein, Iron, Calcium, B12, Omega3, calories and hugs from. You find yourself making posts like this. You find yourself being shouted at, being called an extremist, a hippie, irresponsible, a snob, stupid, retarded, judgemental, a weirdo, obnoxious, lazy, prick worthless, coward and accused of forcing your views on others. Simply because you chose not to harm other beings, you find yourself.

Please feel free to share the conscious lifestyle changes that had an impact on the way you see the world and your social life.

Edit:

It still amazes me that a post which was originally meant to be about what makes people to stop and think, turns out to be yet another personal "shut the fuck up vegan" contest. Instead of trying to "educate" me on the "acceptable" way of bring up a subject that makes you uncomfortable, why don't we try to: 1) stay on topic and share any major awakenings in your life or 2) if we're going to talk about veganism let's talk about the 60 billion animals being tortured and murdered annually for human enjoyment unnecessarily just because we can, and not the vegan who just doesn't learn how to be polite, which will end up being a waste of everyone's time Or option 3) ignore this thread completely if this topic upsets you.



thenewgreen:

I don't know if this counts as a conscious lifestyle change, or decision, but when we decided to have children it's certainly changed everything. I changed considerably.

I have been thinking about my kids and how they will have even less of a connection to farming etc. than I did growing up. My grandparents on my father's side raised chickens and had a large garden. in fact this is all my grandfathers doing. On my mothers side they had chickens, goats and a large vegetable garden. I was always surrounded by food that had been raised and grown by my family.

My grandparents are older now and no longer farm. My kids will have to be taken on field trips etc to witness farming. We can have a small garden here at my house, but because of the dense tree cover it will prove difficult.

Times, they have changed. But I agree that it's important for people to know their food source.

Also, regarding you being persecuted by people, I have to say that you bring much of this upon yourself. I saw that earlier you posted a cartoon in response to someone's discussion of Amish meat. It's super passive aggressive and had nothing to do with the conversation at hand. There's a time and a place for certain things, it's social etiquette and when you ignore that, people get pissed.

I'm glad that your lifestyle change has been a positive thing for you. This post is exactly the RIGHT context for such conversations.


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