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_refugee_  ·  4242 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Tell Me A Story Of When Someone Was An Asshole

I appreciate this post. Not the easiest read, but certainly helpful and good advice. I'm trying to figure out how to deal with my brother going forward. Right now my solution is that we're not going to concerts together for a bit. Unfortunately when I tried to address the issue with him today he is being even worse and I think trying to antagonize me, so I've been ignoring him. Of course, there is also the "if he is an asshole when he is with you in the future, even when not at concerts, call him out on it" approach that you have recommended and I agree with that as well.

(Side note: as for the bartender...yeah, I know haha. I like to flirt with bartenders. I think expecting any more out of it is a bit of rookie mistake.)