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user-inactivated  ·  567 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: September 7, 2022

Ah fuck. Really sorry to hear about his passing. I know you hadn't met him but I'm sure there was plenty of connection through what you both loved to do and were planning on.

A part of me wonders if I could handle the dating scene these days. I met my partner via Tinder in late 2016, we were together early 2017, and have a house together now. And a cat. The cat is the really important part. But .. I recall enjoying the initial dating phase, learning about someone new, that emotional spice where things click. Wondering if they would click. I think it'd hate it now, aside from probably comparing everyone to my hypothetical ex, I don't think I'd have it in me for flings and one nighters these days.