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kingmudsy  ·  1714 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Who are you, Hubski?

Here's a list of adjectives: New graduate, boyfriend, programmer, smart, lazy, jokester, still-figuring-shit-out-ish

I don't think people really understand me, and I don't think I really understand myself. I don't think I've really put the work in towards self-discovery, and "Who am I" is such an expansive fucking question that I don't even know how to begin finding answers to it. I know that everyone I meet sees me a different way, and while I think it's dangerous to define yourself relative to how people perceive you...I mean, everyone does that anyway. So fuck it. I don't know who I am. I'm a different thing to everyone who looks at me, as we all are. As I get older, I care less about what all these people think of me, and I don't know if that's good or bad.