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ilex  ·  1771 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: June 5, 2019

I think this is about as good an answer as one can give to that question. Sometimes people are willing to make different choices to move a relationship closer. Other times it's best to leave boundaries where they are, especially if trying to move them in the past ended poorly.

Thanks for your thoughts; they definitely helped my thought process!