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_refugee_  ·  2213 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Ask Hubski: How do you guys work to avoid engaging in gossip at work?

btw a number of the people who find this thread interesting might also find this book interesting. i started reading it (twice actually) - haven't finished it - but it's in the stack. it's called "thanks for the feedback" and some like, harvard psychologists wrote it or something.

no really it's pretty interesting, and it talks about how to hear negative (or just surprising) things about oneself without feeling personally threatened.

it also talks a little about how to give feedback - and what is gossip if not feedback? - anyway, whatever, here it is on amazon