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goobster · 2498 days ago · link · · parent · post: Lil's Book of Questions: How Can I Develop a Life that Feels Worthy as a Single Person?
Right... it's all about who you are, and who you can be for someone else. The bigger narrative around relationships is about "getting". "Getting" married. "Getting" a girl/boyfriend. Etc. The more powerful way to enter into an engagement with someone else is to BRING you to the party, and offer yourself, rather than take from others. It is riskier. Rejection can be brutal, when it is your heart on offer. But the one who sees your offering, and offers theirs in return? THAT's a partnership.