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goobster  ·  2664 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Ventski - December 2016

I do not regret anything more in my life, than the shit I did and said to my ex-fiancee when I found out she was cheating, and she left me.

Every single word I uttered, every single action I took against her, made me a smaller and weaker person. To this day.

So I will say it, knowing it will fall on deaf ears, but do not speak or interact with her again. Let all communications work through the lawyer, and once it is done, be done with it.

Do not speak to, or of her again, and make your every waking moment about the FUTURE.

Because everything you do, every word you say to her, etc, will haunt you for the rest of your life. "I can't believe I wasted my time on that shit. I was such a dick."

You can't take anything back once it is done. So just don't do it in the first place.

Sorry man. Shit like this sucks. I know from personal experience.