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user-inactivated  ·  2675 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: November 30, 2016

    Hubski, is it selfish to feel frustrated because you're spending all your time doing things that help other people and therefore are accomplishing nothing that you need to do for yourself?

Yes - and you should feel that way because you have a self to take care of. Don't set yourself on fire to keep other people warm. Helping others must be strictly because you want to. Otherwise, you just let others lead you by your nose - and that's entirely too much power given to those people.