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arguewithatree  ·  2786 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: In Defense of Villainesses

also also they hit on a super important point about coding WANTING especially for oneself as BAD. "The Girl" by City and Colour came on Pandora just now and I'm mad rolling my eyes at the whole song which is basically like wowowow thx for being understanding about me following my dreams but then follows it up with this line "If you were to leave and fulfill someone else's dreams/I think I might totally be lost"..... ignoring entirely that it's probably supposed to be a don't leave me for another dude line, what if it's her own dreams? that's bad. she has to frame herself in the singer's world and success and dreams or he'll be LOST.

it's boring.