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user-inactivated  ·  3561 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How selfish is too selfish?

    The simplest way I can define being "too selfish" is being someone who takes more than you're willing to give.

"Willing to give" and "giving" are different traits. I might be willing to give but would not give because I'm an asshole, or because I'm scared of public opinion, or because I'm angry at the time etc.