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pushka  ·  2541 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What's your favorite question?

"Are you gay?" or "I hope I'm not going to offend you, but..."

I love talking about sexuality and my experiences, and hearing about other people's reality and way of thinking, their opinions and feelings - but I only like all this when the people are open to discussion and or interested - so I never bring any of it up.

It's both my favourite, and I wish people would ask it more.

Fav answer (that I give, since I don't generally ask other people) - "yeah, I'm a flaming homo" (though I usually say something boring like.. 'yes.')

- and - "Sure, no worries, ask or say anything ~ "

Why - because it informs and opens up to interesting things, anthropological studies, and sharing - perhaps educating and enlightening.