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wasoxygen  ·  3311 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Family friend died... he was a classic

    we were living then, the intensity of it made it so we won’t forget a second of it

Reminds me of a story, neglected here, with a poignant image that often comes to mind.

    I mean, I can imagine some poor bastard who’s fulfilled all your criteria for successful adaptation to life, … upon retirement to some aged enclave near Tampa just staring out over the ocean waiting for the next attack of chest pain, and wondering what he’s missed all his life. What’s the difference between a guy who at his final conscious moments before death has a nostalgic grin on his face as if to say, ‘Boy, I sure squeezed that lemon’ and the other man who fights for every last breath in an effort to turn back time to some nagging unfinished business?