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you "complain about this a lot", is the equivalent of, "get over it", "I don't care about this", "you're pestering me", etc. That's invalidating. I classify it as invalidating, the same way someone would describe the color of flowers, thats blue, that's pink, that's white, etc. That phrase "complain about this a lot", is invalidating. We're all free to choose our friends, so it looks like you've done that :)It was annoying, and unjustified in my opinion.