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CrazyEyeJoe  ·  3834 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I make people feel stupid? Patronized?

The first one I don't know about, but the second one:

Let people handle their emotions how they like. If it makes him feel better to whine for five minutes, just agree and he'll probably move on quickly. Nothing pisses me off more than people who tell me to calm down when I'm venting. The AIM of the venting is for me to calm down.