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Chaia_H · 4047 days ago · link · · parent · post: Lil's Book of Questions: Were You Planned? Did It Matter?
My mother told me a number of times how much she wanted a girl. I assume I was planned. The feeling of having been wanted meant something to me, but not as much as feeling loved in the present. However, it meant a lot when a dear cousin named Lil sent me a letter my father wrote when I was born that showed how happy he was.